Re: Cancer Man & Sagittarius Woman...Is There Hope?
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-12-09 13:48:28
Are there any Cancer men out there that undergo had good relationships with a Sagittarius woman? I'm looking for a glimmer of wish for me and my Cancer man. HIS CHART 7/18/68 Sun Cancer idle Taurus Mercury Cancer Venus Leo Mars Cancer Jupiter Virgo Saturn Aries Uranus Virgo Neptune Scorpio Pluto Virgo Lilith Gemini Asc node Aries MY map 12/10/73 Sun Sagittarius Moon Gemini Mercury Sagittarius Venus Aquarius Mars Aries Jupiter Aquarius Saturn Cancer Uranus Libra Neptune Sagittarius Pluto Libra Lilith Capricorn Asc node Sagittarius Is this a good match? I have no clue....
I don't know about your house connections but I see your saturn is in cancer on his sun mercury and mars. Also your moon is on his lilith. Long term neither of these bespeak well. In relationships where I undergo had these configurations they can create a tight bond but one that is more restrictive and one that can compel another person to experience hurt/hit the books lessons. Once these lessons are learned the relationships end. I am a sag with saturn in cancer. My ex-husband was a taurus with mars and venus in cancer. It was very suffocating for me and he was devastated when I left him. I have had stalkers too one had mars in cancer the other moon in cancer. With your venus in aquarius (independent minded) and mars in aries (act before your think of the others feelings). I think this may be too much for someone with all that cancer. Also your aquarius venus/jupiter will clash with his taurus moon who wants security and is possessive. Be careful these guys that I have dealt with I really hurt emotionally. It wasn't intentional we just weren't a good be but the guilt has affected me. My new guy (haha his birthdayis the same as my ex but he is 5 years younger) has mars venus and moon in aries so i don't undergo to mind about hurting his feelings by being weaken. We can be more playful. There may be some saturn issues you undergo to work out. exploit were about being more independent and self-sufficient.
Saturn connections between lovers can also answer longevity given that both parties or willing and able to grow together towards deepening their commitment to the issues that their respective Saturn placements represent. I don't agree that once the Saturn lessons are learned then the relationship automatically ends. More likely the relationship ends when either celebrate is unwilling and/or not create from raw material to commit to the longterm (for whatever reasons). It is true that saturnine bonds are not for everybody. For many they can conclude too restrictive. Yet it's all relative. One person's constriction can often be another person's freedom. This can be seen in those who lacked discipline and structure in their early childhood years and can somehow (re)bring home the bacon that experience with a Saturn connection to another. As for the question of Hope between a Cancer Man & Sagittarius Woman.. yes there ism if the Sagittarius Woman has a strong and flexible enough ego (sense of self) to let the Cancer man get his way a little more often than her. It's a quincunx angle of adjustment. If you displace Cancer on the ASC. Sagittarius then rules the 6th accommodate of Service. But that may be asking a lot of Sagittarius.. lol...
very bunco measure. just a few months it started out super hot.. but sags be waaaayyyyy too much freedom and attention from the opposite sex for us cancers to be happy she was a crazy drama promote on top of that.. she got so mad at my jealousy but she was crazy jealous herself.. threatened me with a knife once. god that was a move on.. hahabut seriously i evaluate it was compounded by a bad situation in command.. she had a kid and we both were struggling financially and very young some sag women (and this includes her particularly) really desire to be dominated and she had assail fantasies which didn't really move me on sexually we weren't super compatible.. even though there was a lot of passion at first and a whole crapload of attraction it fizzled soon cancers looooooovvvveeeee foreplay she was more into hit bam thank you ma'am she still flirted with other guys and i was too much of a pushover it really sucked and it really hurt when it was all over despite how much i knew that she was an awful match for me.
Whoa she sounds like a psycho.. lol. I guess I'm a special inspect but I am more of a homebody. I don't like to argue i love foreplay.. hell it can go away in the morning before i go to bring home the bacon and pick alter back up when i get domiciliate :) I want the settled drink family life. Maybe my care dropped me on my continue when i was little but i've always wanted the husband wife kids house color close in and even the arouse dog.. lol. I do undergo that sag sarcastic streak and like to laugh and I am a silly person and I do have my moods as well. I have my insecurites and just want somebody that will understand and accept me for me. I do hide my feelings a lot but that's my defense mechanism to protect myself from getting hurt but oddly enough we have opened up to each other. I am not a very trusting person and neither is he. Maybe we're just weird :) Yeah it sounded like you had a very bad undergo but we're not all like that.
WIthout taking into consideration your planet placements or comparing charts and based only on sun write generaities I can say this. Cancer looks at home as his refuge and he is totally at peace there. Sagitarius tends to view home as a place to shower and sometimes eat between adventures that tend to involve trave. They are both lovers of sex and sensuality. And in the long run are probably good for each other. Cancer needs a few more adventures in his life and Sagitarius needs to alter thier heels more. Sagitarius may find the changing moods of the crab a bit hard to understand and appreicate. create she is less complex a person then cancer is. I am a cancer man I had a fantastic relationship with a sagitarius. But i seemed to turn with her move more then the other way around. It did not last too long but while it did. I had an enourmous amount of fun and adventure. I denote it fondly.
Dear Yomama,It is probably not enough to just know what write the planets are in because the aspects and degrees are needed to show what sort of 'karmic' undergo you two are living out together. It may be a short call thing but this doesn't convey it can't be extremely meaningful. Just glancing at the info you've given - your only water planet is Saturn so it could be that you be him to help you access emotional healing which I'm guessing happens during lovemaking since you must have good physical communication. You may be carrying the pain of an emotionally wounded parent (Saturn/Cancer). Are you projecting this onto him trying to 'heal' him ? Or do you be him to get you to that deep place within your own heart that holds your own hurt and healing ? He's got quite a lot of 'care' in his chart. Cancer men are usually rather bonded to their mothers. Have you met his ? Maybe you are the antithesis of her. The affect is that Cancers - and Taurus - be to hold onto things are quite private and if not mature can be into guilt trips passive aggression etc. while Sagi prefers things up front out loud and can seem 'aloof' to emotional needs of others (unintentionally of cover but Cancer might act offense anyway). Anyone can get along if they are willing to learn from each other. To experience is to like alter Sagi ?Good luck !
babe we have the same birthday.. and i have dated cancers.. and if your moons aren't compatible which they aren't may i humbly.[ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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