Re: Cancer Man & Sagittarius Woman...Is There Hope?
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-12-09 13:48:30
Are there any Cancer men out there that have had good relationships with a Sagittarius woman? I'm looking for a glimmer of wish for me and my Cancer man. HIS CHART 7/18/68 Sun Cancer Moon Taurus Mercury Cancer Venus Leo Mars Cancer Jupiter Virgo Saturn Aries Uranus Virgo Neptune Scorpio Pluto Virgo Lilith Gemini Asc node Aries MY CHART 12/10/73 Sun Sagittarius Moon Gemini Mercury Sagittarius Venus Aquarius Mars Aries Jupiter Aquarius Saturn Cancer Uranus Libra Neptune Sagittarius Pluto Libra Lilith Capricorn Asc node Sagittarius Is this a good match? I have no clue....
I don't experience about your accommodate connections but I see your saturn is in cancer on his sun mercury and mars. Also your moon is on his lilith. Long call neither of these bode well. In relationships where I have had these configurations they can create a tight bond but one that is more restrictive and one that can compel another person to undergo pain/hit the books lessons. Once these lessons are learned the relationships end. I am a sag with saturn in cancer. My ex-husband was a taurus with mars and venus in cancer. It was very suffocating for me and he was devastated when I left him. I undergo had stalkers too one had mars in cancer the other moon in cancer. With your venus in aquarius (independent minded) and mars in aries (act before your think of the others feelings). I think this may be too much for someone with all that cancer. Also your aquarius venus/jupiter ordain collide with with his taurus idle who wants security and is possessive. Be careful these guys that I undergo dealt with I really hurt emotionally. It wasn't intentional we just weren't a good be but the guilt has affected me. My new guy (haha his birthdayis the same as my ex but he is 5 years younger) has mars venus and idle in aries so i don't have to mind about hurting his feelings by being blunt. We can be more playful. There may be some saturn issues you have to bring home the bacon out. exploit were about being more independent and self-sufficient.
Saturn connections between lovers can also serve longevity given that both parties or willing and able to change together towards deepening their commitment to the issues that their respective Saturn placements be. I don't accept that once the Saturn lessons are learned then the relationship automatically ends. More likely the relationship ends when either celebrate is unwilling and/or not ready to commit to the longterm (for whatever reasons). It is true that saturnine bonds are not for everybody. For many they can feel too restrictive. Yet it's all relative. One person's constriction can often be another person's freedom. This can be seen in those who lacked discipline and structure in their early childhood years and can somehow (re)achieve that undergo with a Saturn connection to another. As for the challenge of Hope between a Cancer Man & Sagittarius Woman.. yes there ism if the Sagittarius Woman has a strong and flexible enough ego (sense of self) to let the Cancer man get his way a little more often than her. It's a quincunx go of adjustment. If you displace Cancer on the ASC. Sagittarius then rules the 6th House of Service. But that may be asking a lot of Sagittarius.. lol...
very short time. just a few months it started out super hot.. but sags need waaaayyyyy too much freedom and attention from the opposite sex for us cancers to be happy she was a crazy drama queen on top of that.. she got so mad at my jealousy but she was crazy jealous herself.. threatened me with a knife once. god that was a turn on.. hahabut seriously i evaluate it was compounded by a bad situation in general.. she had a kid and we both were struggling financially and very young some sag women (and this includes her particularly) really like to be dominated and she had rape fantasies which didn't really turn me on sexually we weren't super compatible.. change surface though there was a lot of passion at first and a whole crapload of attraction it fizzled soon cancers looooooovvvveeeee foreplay she was more into wham bam thank you ma'am she comfort flirted with other guys and i was too much of a pushover it really sucked and it really cause to be perceived when it was all over despite how much i knew that she was an awful be for me.
Whoa she sounds desire a psycho.. lol. I anticipate I'm a special inspect but I am more of a homebody. I don't like to argue i love foreplay.. hell it can start in the morning before i go to work and pick alter back up when i get domiciliate :) I be the settled drink family life. Maybe my care dropped me on my head when i was little but i've always wanted the husband wife kids accommodate white fence and even the damn dog.. lol. I do have that sag sarcastic move and like to express emotion and I am a silly person and I do undergo my moods as well. I have my insecurites and just want somebody that will understand and accept me for me. I do enclose my feelings a lot but that's my defense mechanism to defend myself from getting cause to be perceived but oddly enough we have opened up to each other. I am not a very trusting person and neither is he. Maybe we're just weird :) Yeah it sounded desire you had a very bad undergo but we're not all desire that.
WIthout taking into consideration your planet placements or comparing charts and based only on sun write generaities I can say this. Cancer looks at domiciliate as his refuge and he is totally at peace there. Sagitarius tends to view home as a displace to consume and sometimes eat between adventures that tend to involve trave. They are both lovers of sex and sensuality. And in the long run are probably good for each other. Cancer needs a few more adventures in his life and Sagitarius needs to cool thier heels more. Sagitarius may find the changing moods of the crab a bit hard to understand and appreicate. create she is less complex a person then cancer is. I am a cancer man I had a fantastic relationship with a sagitarius. But i seemed to roll with her flow more then the other way around. It did not last too long but while it did. I had an enourmous amount of fun and adventure. I recall it fondly.
Dear Yomama,It is probably not enough to just know what write the planets are in because the aspects and degrees are needed to show what choose of 'karmic' experience you two are living out together. It may be a bunco term thing but this doesn't mean it can't be extremely meaningful. Just glancing at the info you've given - your only water planet is Saturn so it could be that you be him to help you access emotional healing which I'm guessing happens during lovemaking since you must undergo good physical communication. You may be carrying the hurt of an emotionally wounded parent (Saturn/Cancer). Are you projecting this onto him trying to 'ameliorate' him ? Or do you be him to get you to that deep place within your own heart that holds your own pain and healing ? He's got quite a lot of 'mother' in his map. Cancer men are usually rather bonded to their mothers. Have you met his ? Maybe you are the antithesis of her. The trouble is that Cancers - and Taurus - be to hold onto things are quite private and if not develop can be into guilt trips passive aggression etc. while Sagi prefers things up lie out loud and can seem 'aloof' to emotional needs of others (unintentionally of cover but Cancer might act offense anyway). Anyone can get along if they are willing to hit the books from each other. To know is to like alter Sagi ?Good luck !
babe we undergo the same birthday.. and i have dated cancers.. and if your moons aren't compatible which they aren't may i humbly.[ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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